I have never experienced driving so for me its an easy task that only consists of steering the wheel to your direction but the truth is driving takes a lot of effort and patience. The same thing with life is that if you haven’t really experienced something you would never know how it feels like or how hard it is . People may think that what you’re going through is something easy , something you should “get over” perhaps ; They judge not realizing that life’s view is different from eye to eye. 
There are many things that are left unsaid in our hearts, things words fail to describe .Those things define us, they make us who we are and uttering those things can take a lot of effort and is sometimes impossible. Yes, we use words to express ourselves but they don’t always serve us right.
 People always use the phrase “Put yourself in my shoes” but the truth is you can’t , even if you try you’ll never know how it feels like until life throws you in that position. 

- By Alwid Lootah